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		<title>The Ongoing Debate about Product Returns</title>
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		<updated>2007-12-16T06:06:00Z</updated>
		<published>2007-12-16T06:06:00Z</published>
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;What is your return policy? Is it fair? Is it cost
effective? Is it too strict and losing you sales? Is it too lenient and
stripping your bot&lt;st1:PersonName w:st="on"&gt;tom&lt;/st1:PersonName&gt; line? Should
you change it? What is everyone else doing?&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;Well the last question may be the most important. The
climate of the marketplace will change, and cus&lt;st1:PersonName w:st="on"&gt;tom&lt;/st1:PersonName&gt;er
expectations change as it evolves. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;In the past, “the cus&lt;st1:PersonName w:st="on"&gt;tom&lt;/st1:PersonName&gt;er
is always right.” As companies like Target tighten up their return policy (no
returns after 90 days, no returns without a receipt), cus&lt;st1:PersonName w:st="on"&gt;tom&lt;/st1:PersonName&gt;ers
are expecting less from your return policy. As fraud increases, in particular
online, etailers tighten their return policies in an effort to protect
themselves.&lt;span style=""&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;These things combine to set
a climate that an etailer can use to their advantage.&lt;span style=""&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;Return policies sometimes seem to be stricter for “bargain”
companies.&lt;span style=""&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;For example, in the B&amp;amp;M
world, Burlington Coat Factory, known for designer clothing at Target prices,
will not give a refund after 2 weeks, even with a receipt. That’s strict.&lt;span style=""&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;So who pays for shipping? Most online retailers pay for
return shipping if it is their mistake. Some pay for return shipping even if
the cus&lt;st1:PersonName w:st="on"&gt;tom&lt;/st1:PersonName&gt;er changes their mind. One
logic is that if you bought the vaccum cleaner at Target, you drove to Target
to buy it, used your gas and car and time, and if you got home the vacuum did
not work, you would have to drive to Target to get another one.&lt;span style=""&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Target is not going to reimburse you for your
gas expense or time.&lt;span style=""&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Even though it was
not your fault.&lt;span style=""&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So why should you pay
for your cus&lt;st1:PersonName w:st="on"&gt;tom&lt;/st1:PersonName&gt;er to “drive it back”
to your store?&lt;span style=""&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Answer: because it is
mostly still expected in the online world. The cus&lt;st1:PersonName w:st="on"&gt;tom&lt;/st1:PersonName&gt;er
does not equate a shipping cost with their time/gas spent shopping in the
B&amp;amp;M world. Free shipping still reigns.&lt;span style=""&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;And a few etailers even pay for return shipping even if the cus&lt;st1:PersonName w:st="on"&gt;tom&lt;/st1:PersonName&gt;er changes their mind (like Gotham City Online,
top online shoe-seller).&lt;span style=""&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;But as larger retailers tighten up their policies, this
attitude should shift. There will always be a debate about the value of cus&lt;st1:PersonName w:st="on"&gt;tom&lt;/st1:PersonName&gt;er service, the increased sales from a lenient
return policy paying for the cost of the returns, and for some business models
this will work.&lt;span style=""&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;But overall, &lt;span style=""&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;“what everyone else is doing” will guide cus&lt;st1:PersonName w:st="on"&gt;tom&lt;/st1:PersonName&gt;er expectations, and staying in tune with this
can help you maintain a return policy keeps cus&lt;st1:PersonName w:st="on"&gt;tom&lt;/st1:PersonName&gt;ers
satisfied and profits up.&lt;/p&gt;

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	<entry>
		<title>Keeping your patience dealing with customers</title>
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		<updated>2007-12-16T06:05:00Z</updated>
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;Anyone that has every done a stint serving cus&lt;st1:PersonName w:st="on"&gt;tom&lt;/st1:PersonName&gt;ers, whether waiting tables, answering phones, or
via email, has struggled dealing with stupid cus&lt;st1:PersonName w:st="on"&gt;tom&lt;/st1:PersonName&gt;ers,
or angry cus&lt;st1:PersonName w:st="on"&gt;tom&lt;/st1:PersonName&gt;ers. The best cus&lt;st1:PersonName w:st="on"&gt;tom&lt;/st1:PersonName&gt;er service reps are able to keep situations
brief, keep conflicts to a minimum, and the highest percentage of cus&lt;st1:PersonName w:st="on"&gt;tom&lt;/st1:PersonName&gt;ers leaving happy. These are some general tips
that I use personally and share with my staff. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;ol style="margin-top: 0in;" start="1" type="1"&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Every
     interaction is a potential sale. Even for sales that have taken place,
     unhappy cus&lt;st1:PersonName w:st="on"&gt;tom&lt;/st1:PersonName&gt;ers, that cus&lt;st1:PersonName w:st="on"&gt;tom&lt;/st1:PersonName&gt;er will tell people good or bad things about
     your store. So keep your eye on the dollar bill. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Cus&lt;st1:PersonName w:st="on"&gt;tom&lt;/st1:PersonName&gt;er service via email has its own challenges,
     because people have “cyber balls”, they are much nastier then they would
     be in person. You too may be nastier. If you find yourself getting way too
     mad, tempted to tell someone off, go ahead and write it out , then delete
     it, and send your 2&lt;sup&gt;nd&lt;/sup&gt; reply instead. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ol&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;ol style="margin-top: 0in;" start="3" type="1"&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Check
     your personal bad mood at the door:&lt;span style=""&gt;&amp;nbsp;
     &lt;/span&gt;Anyone has a bad day now and then, and that is the hardest time to
     deal with cus&lt;st1:PersonName w:st="on"&gt;tom&lt;/st1:PersonName&gt;ers. Even minor
     questions turn into big headaches. Check in with yourself, recognizing
     your bad mood is the first step. If you realize that your irritation level
     is due to your own bad mood, stress in your own life, illness, you can
     then decide if you can overcome it, or if you need to take a break.&lt;span style=""&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Deep breaths, a change of scenery,
     taking a walk can make a difference.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Picture
     the person you are talking to is your dear sweet grandmother.&lt;span style=""&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;This trick really works! When I find
     myself answering the stupidest question, if I picture this is my actual
     grandmother, sweetest woman in the world, just confused, not internet
     savvy, my patience level increases tenfold. How could I be so irritated
     with this sweet old lady whose eyesight is not good and who is confused
     with reading my webpage and just wants to know what the shipping cost
     is?&lt;span style=""&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;(by the way, this trick also
     works for driving in &lt;st1:State w:st="on"&gt;&lt;st1:place w:st="on"&gt;Florida&lt;/st1:place&gt;&lt;/st1:State&gt;
     behind a slow blue-hair with their blinker on for 3 miles—imagining it is
     my nervous grandmother keeps the road rage at a minimum)&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Treat
     it like a personal challenge to turn around a grouchy disgruntled cus&lt;st1:PersonName w:st="on"&gt;tom&lt;/st1:PersonName&gt;er. When you react without sarcasm, when you
     respond with patience and sympathy and understanding, the chances of
     turning around a bad situation are very high. Most people just want to be
     heard, they want an apology. Think of that satisfying feeling of turning
     around a bad situation, and knowing it was your reaction that controlled
     the situation and made it all better. Keep a running tally, give yourself
     a gold star, something to remind yourself that it can be done. And often
     the angry cus&lt;st1:PersonName w:st="on"&gt;tom&lt;/st1:PersonName&gt;er ends up
     apologizing---give yourself 2 gold stars! If you work with others, have a
     contest, keep a public board of your gold stars. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Have a
     budget for making unhappy cus&lt;st1:PersonName w:st="on"&gt;tom&lt;/st1:PersonName&gt;ers
     leave satisfied.&lt;span style=""&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Offer refunds,
     future coupons, plan on spending a little bit of money. Do not go
     overboard, but in the long run, a bad situation is turned around quicker
     with a coupon or refund, the time spent arguing and future lost sales are
     not worth the $10 shipping credit you could give to make the problem go
     away instantly.&lt;span style=""&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Not to mention your
     stress level or your staff’s stress level. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="MsoNormal" style=""&gt;Realize
     that some cus&lt;st1:PersonName w:st="on"&gt;tom&lt;/st1:PersonName&gt;ers are going
     to be unhappy no matter what. You cannot have 100% cus&lt;st1:PersonName w:st="on"&gt;tom&lt;/st1:PersonName&gt;er satisfaction. Realizing this, or letting
     your employees know that you realize this, empathizing with them about
     those few absolutely insane cus&lt;st1:PersonName w:st="on"&gt;tom&lt;/st1:PersonName&gt;ers,
     will go a long way in decreasing their stress level, and making them
     better service employees. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ol&gt;

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	<entry>
		<title>Raising an Entrepreneur</title>
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			<name>Your Private Blog</name>
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		<category term="Personal Interest" />
		<updated>2007-12-16T06:04:00Z</updated>
		<published>2007-12-16T06:04:00Z</published>
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&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;My daughter is at the age where kids have lemonade stands.
That first spark about making her own money burst out this weekend. We were
making Christmas ornaments like we do every year, and she had the idea to sell
them.&lt;span style=""&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;As I sit and brainstorm with her
of which family members she can give each one to, I can see the dollar signs in
her eyes--- she’s got the fever.&lt;span style=""&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;On one
hand, I want to encourage generosity and thoughtfulness, I really WANT her to
want to make some gifts and keep the spirit of Christmas alive.&lt;span style=""&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;But on the other hand, I want to raise an
entrepreneur, I want her to have the confidence to build her dream. AND the
skills.&lt;span style=""&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;So I let her run with it, and encourage every idea, even the
ones that I know will not work.&lt;span style=""&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;She was
obsessed, talking about it for hours, about pricing, about where to set up a
table to get the most traffic, about making ornaments year round for other
holidays, about donating a % to charity. She went to bed talking about it, she
woke up talking about it, and even though she and I knew that our neighborhood
had just about zero traffic, when she asked me where the card table was, I knew
she was going to set up shop today no matter what.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;How excited I was! Her first ‘lemonade stand’!&lt;span style=""&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Except it was her sequined popsicle stick
stars.&lt;span style=""&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;And within 5 minutes a neighbor
made the first purchase! Nevermind that she sat outside for 4 hours and only
sold 3 ornaments.&lt;span style=""&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;The point was she DID
THIS, on her own, and was not hung up on her profits as much as the experience
of selling.&lt;span style=""&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;And the ideas “Mom, we must
set up another location &lt;st1:PersonName w:st="on"&gt;tom&lt;/st1:PersonName&gt;orrow, we
need to move around to reach more people”.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;All I could think about today is my experience with the book
“Rich Dad Poor Dad”. If you own a business and have kids, read it.&lt;span style=""&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;If you do not own a business and have kids,
and are sick of working “for the man”, READ IT.&lt;span style=""&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;The idea is about raising entrepreneurs, but the lessons transfer to the
adult reader too. Owning your own business requires confidence and risk taking
(smart risks hopefully!), and these qualities can be taught. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;One of the big takeaways for me from the book:&lt;span style=""&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;making yourself available to take those
opportunities. So many of us find the reasons that business idea will not work,
or reasons why we cannot start our own business. So I could have said: “Oh
Elly, no one will be in our neighborhood today, you will spend hours outside
and not get many sales, I don’t know where the card table it, I don’t have any
change to give you for your stand” etc.&lt;span style=""&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;Instead I helped her become available to this opportunity (the ornaments
were made already, why not?) So I tried to be supportive without taking it
over, help set expectations for slow sales so she would not be too
disappointed, and she got her first taste of having a business. And she loved
it. And she brought a boombox outside halfway through the day to pipe Christmas
music into her “store”.&lt;span style=""&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;No one was there
to hear it but her, but it’s a valid idea! I was proud and impressed. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;There is so much more to the book, about the value of
networking, about keeping the goal to have a business that does not require YOU
for 40-60 hours a week for it to be profitable, about acting on our ideas
instead of just thinking.&lt;span style=""&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;So read it.
And next time you see a kid’s lemonade stand, buy one, you are building an
entrepreneur. &lt;/p&gt;

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		<title>Your Private Blog Welcome's Our New Members</title>
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		<updated>2007-12-14T19:07:00Z</updated>
		<published>2007-12-14T19:07:00Z</published>
		<content type="html">Your Private Blog welcomes our newest members. Feel free to blog about whatever suits your business needs, please keep any and all text links to a minimum and please add content that is interesting and useful.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;We strive to add value to the internet you can help us by adding content not spam. Please do not post anything that does not add value to our site, if you do we may be forced to remove your post.&lt;br&gt;</content>
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